The recent case of a doctor’s molestation in Kolkata has sparked outrage and disgust across the nation. Social media platforms are full of posts expressing anger and demanding justice for the victim.
While it’s important to acknowledge and express our collective outrage, it’s equally crucial to channel this energy into consequential action that can create a safer world for women.
Let’s move beyond mere social media posts and explore impactful ways to create a safer world for women.
Raise Voice (Not just on Social Media)
The power of collective action is undeniable. While social media platforms offer a convenient outlet to express our anger and frustration, it’s essential to complement these virtual demonstrations with tangible actions within our local communities.
Standing up in person amplifies our voices and creates a sense of solidarity and shared purpose. Whether attending rallies, engaging in community meetings, or supporting local organisations to address these issues, our physical presence drives change and fosters a safer environment for women.
Remember, social media reach is limited to our circle, unless we are a celebrity or an influencer.
Observe Local Concerns. Raise Complaints.
Do you see a street light not working in places you frequently travel, the areas which may be potentially dangerous for women?
Do you come across dark lanes with suspicious persons?
If you observe your locality, you may find such places which need improvement. Write to the local police and your municipal councillor. Follow up for action, and take help from your RWA and other influential persons/ bodies.
One such action might prevent many unfortunate future incidents.
Stand Up for Women (If Needed)
I agree we don’t want to get into fist-fights with strangers. I don’t ask you to do that. However, if you see someone eve-teasing or harassing a woman even subtly and you choose to ignore it. It is equivalent to encouraging such behaviour.
Instead of resorting to violence, simply make it clear to the eve-teaser that you are intervening.
If more people start to intervene and let those who breach a woman’s boundary know that there will be someone who will stand up, they will think many a time before resorting to an ill action.
Teach and Respect a Woman’s Boundary
Creating a safer space for women begins with understanding and respecting their boundaries. Teaching this concept involves open and honest communication about personal space, consent, and respecting others’ physical and emotional limits.
Parents need to teach this to their kids as well.
By modelling respectful behaviour and fostering a culture where women feel empowered to voice their needs and concerns, we can create an environment where everyone feels valued, safe, and respected. Listen to women’s experiences, believe their stories, and take concrete steps to address instances of boundary violations.
When you see someone not respecting this boundary talk to them about its importance. Take action if called for.
Learn Self-Defence
Learning self-defence is a powerful tool for women to empower themselves and enhance their safety.
By acquiring practical skills and techniques, women can gain the confidence to navigate potentially dangerous situations and protect themselves.
However, access to quality self-defence training can be a concern for many, especially in marginalised communities. To ensure that every woman learns these vital skills, sponsor self-defence programs for people around us.
Investment in women’s empowerment and safety makes a stable and just society. At Kombat Hall, we provide free training to those who need it. We work with various NGOs and groups as well.
Unless you know how to stand up when needed, you’re harmless, not peaceful.
If you are a warrior, reading this, it does not matter who you are- men or women, it's our collective duty to make our locality a safer place. Let's get it done.
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